Big Saft Kid
Just doesn't shut up
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Brilliant thoughtful post from someone whose family was in the thick of it, putting to shame some of the brain-dead knee-jerk chauvinists who have paraded their ignorance on this thread.I have been reading the posts on James McClean (again!) with interest. A few words of background to put my views in context. My father was Irish and I have lived in Ireland since 1973. My father 's uncle died in the First World Word War and he himself volunteered for the RAF (despite his father having been in the IRA in the War of Independence) and served in Bomber Command as a rear gunner in Lancasters, completing 32 missions- a pretty impressive feat of survival!
After the war he rejoined the RAF and served for many years but ultimately came back here to live. I followed shortly afterwards. At a time when wearing the poppy was not the cleverest of ideas here- and poppies hard to find- I often wore one; my father sometimes wore one. When he died the British Legion in Ireland sent a wreath and representatives to his funeral, which we very much appreciated. I still put a few bob in the British Legion collection boxes, which are a bit easier to find now. However, I don't wear a poppy any more, though I may again at some stage. Mostly this is because I have been put off by the poppy police. It should be something you want to do, not something that that is forced on everyone. It seemed to have started something over a decade ago when suddenly everyone on TV was wearing one and then it spread to football jerseys. I find it distinctly odd to see a complete team of foreign players wearing poppied jerseys. It takes away any symbolism or any deeper meaning from wearing them.
I am still grateful to the RAF for my father's years there and to the British Legion for their kindness. However, I firmly believe James McClean is entitled to his opinion on this and actually admire his courage in standing by his principles in not wearing the jersey. Yes, he earns his living in England, but a workman is worthy of his wages; they are not conditional on his allegiances. He is not a terrorist or a member of the IRA: if he were so or vociferously supported them then I would have a different view. He comes from Creggan in Derry and has considerable loyalty to his home place and for that he does deserve respect. He is also not the best footballer around, but I know that, certainly when he plays for Ireland (which does indicate his broader loyalties I guess), no one works harder or puts more of themselves into the game. I go to most of the Ireland games and I have moved from thinking him not worth his place to realising that he is an influential player on the pitch, particularly when the team has to dig in hard to stay in the game. Surprisingly he can inspire other players and the crowd. However, my post is not about his footballing skills but more about the complexities of poppy wearing. It is not mandatory, neither should it ever be. One day I will wear one again with pride for my father, but not until it is no longer de rigeur but is something that is done willingly and from the heart by those who wish to wear them for their own reasons.
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