I had that thought within a few hours of her passing just only of a woman in my street who I'd classify as well as the street that she is scum of the earth and still have that feeling, I don't think that will ever change when I can compare the 2 women and think why the **** was it my wife.My mum died in 2005. If anyone can have a ‘good death’ she had one. We said everything to each other we wanted to say, and when the end came it was relatively quick. But bloody hell, I was angry. All these unemployed layabouts. Petty bloody criminals. Wasters. They were alive and my mum was dead.
How could that possibly be right?
You’ll be having exactly those thoughts. Don’t think they’re wrong. They’re not, they’re natural. So don’t feel guilty.
I can only offer you what every other person on the forum will offer: condolences and – I think blokes can say it to each other now – love.
As I say, take good care of yourself.
Don't get me wrong I wouldn't wish it upon anyone but **** me why us .